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Written by Curtis Reed, Posted on , in Section Teens & Tweens
An eating disorder does not suddenly appear out of nowhere, it takes time to develop, which is why adolescent girls may not understand, or even want to recognize, that they have a problem. This issue is not normally the results of one particular event, but a combination of experiences, which all contribute to the way a young girl views herself. The pressure to be thin and physically beautiful is a heavy burden for teenage girls, and if they feel they don't measure up, low self-esteem is often the results.
Sport coaches and dance instructors encourage females to excel, which is normal for competitive activities. However, extreme exercise, strict diets, and the push for physical perfection can lead to binging, bulimia and anorexia. Both of these eating disorders contribute to health complications which can lead to a serious illness. Young girls can develop amenorrhea, a condition that causes the loss of menstrual periods, which can impose headaches, vision changes, hair loss, infertility, and early bone loss.
Denial will never overcome a harmful obstacle
Teens believe they will never be harmed by their poor choices, and are frequently in denial when something truly is wrong. Therefore, parents must be vigilent in their observations and be willing to recognize themselves that their daughter has a problem. If you recognize any of the symptoms listed below, seek immediate help for your child.
Decreased appetite or skipping meals altogether
Sudden weight change and frequent weighing
Increased cavities or erosion of tooth enamel
Frequent diarrhea or constipation
Hair loss, skin rash, or insomnia
Moody, anxious or depressed
Withdrawal from family and frirends
Overly sensitive to cricism
Teens involved in these behaviors no longer care about their health, but are going to any length necessary to lose or maintain their weight, and parents must intervene. This can include counseling, behavioral therapy, nutrition classes, and sometimes medication. Re-education is needed for struggling teens, and Residential Treatment is available when these unhealthy patterns have continued for some time. An eating disorder will not simply go away on its own, but with help, your daughter can develop self-esteem and gain a healthy self-image.
