I Will Not Be Happy Until Little Boys Aspire To Be The Next Patty Mchugh
28September

I Will Not Be Happy Until Little Boys Aspire To Be The Next Patty Mchugh

Written by Jori Meyer, Posted on , in Section Teens & Tweens

There just aren't enough women in the fields of Science, Technology, Engineering and Math. The "STEM" industry continues to be made up of a large majority of men, but my question is, why aren't there more women in those fields to offer examples to young people?

This last year, after the birth of my daughter, I really started thinking about her future and how I can influence the career path she takes. How I can help her look past the gender component and climb to the top. 

"Women who seek to be equal with men lack ambition."

Timothy Leary

Nothing rings truer in my head than that simple statement. I don't want for my daughter to grow up wishing for gender equality. I want her to reach higher than any man, any woman - in fact. I want her to look at her competition, may it be male or female, and say;

"Not only can I do what they are doing, I can do it better. Maybe even differently and more efficient."

Now, I get pegged for the mother who raises arrogant kids and that's not it either. There is a fine balance of being humble and being better than others. Being better than others doesn't necessarily mean that the others are under you, no - just that you've channeled your strengths better.

If we constantly strive to be equal we will move forward more slowly. Instead, seek to live up to your fullest potential in every way, however high it may be, and encourage the men and women around you to do the same, giving and spreading the knowledge that can be obtained from each other in any field we seek.

For example, the following are four fantastically intelligent women who have gone above and beyond in their individual STEM fields encouraging and setting a healthy role model for young women around the world.

Marie Curie - Science, She discovered two elements, polonium and radium, and contributed to the Science of Radioactivity. She was also the first woman to win a Noble Prize, the only woman to win in two fields and the only person to win in multiple sciences.

Marie

Patty Mchugh - Technology, Mother of the Motherboard, she helped design the first IBM PC. Pretty good for a girl, eh?
 
Patty 
 
Hedy Lamarr - Engineering, A saucy movie star with a knack for inventing remote-controlled communication systems for the US Military which is now a foundation for modern communication technology such as wifi and bluetooth.
 
Hedy
 
Sophie Germain - Mathematics, She was self educated through her father's library, corresponding with other math studies, and studying geometry to cure boredom during the French Revolution - she became a pioneer in the elasticity theory and created a foundation for Fermet's Last Theorem to be discovered by mathematicians for hundred of years after. Of course, because of her gender, she was unable to fufill a career in mathematics so she worked independently throughout her life. Who knows what great mathematics breakthroughs we may have missed out on because of contemporaneous French gender biases.
 
Sophie
 
It may be true that the male population has the upperhand right now when it comes to advancing our future, but I have high hopes for this new generation of women and the strides forward they will make. I hope they look at gender equality right in the eyes and say "challenge accepted," leaving any and all competition in their dust.