The Economy Destroyed My Family: Parenting Through Hard Times
Written by Craig Rogers, Posted on , in Section Teens & Tweens
Economic dilemmas impact entire families, and the negative effects can ripple through to future generations. Parents hope to provide all sorts of good and wonderful things for their children; a safe and beautiful home, quality education, gifts for birthdays and christmas, participation in sports and music, family vacations, and more. Being a parent and enjoying family life can be the most wonderful, fulfilling experience and provide a lifetime of fond memories. However, political events and economic financial stress can sometimes destroy that family dream.
Acts of war threaten our sense of safety and security, and can impose societal restrictions while adding to our fears and suspicions. The increasing national debt results in the continued reduction of benefits, the elimination of jobs, and adds to the financial burden within states, counties, cities, and the individual families. Loss of income, home foreclosures, and the steady increase of gas prices and food, all contribute to tough times that parents and families have to endure. And when those hard times come, or continue to worsen, it is vital for parents to maintain as much stability and sense of security within their families as possible.
Children are Particularly Vulnerable When Times Get Tough
Children may not fully understand the situation, but they can sense the stress in the air, the tone in your voice, and the frustration on your face. And even though they are aware something is wrong, they will still continue to make demands as before. Financial stress can be overwhelming, and soon anger, impatience, irritation, neglect and even abuse can replace the kind words and warm hugs previously given. A healthy emotional balance is challenging for stressed parents to maintain, but it is vital, and well worth the effort! These few simple steps can help to foster the love, security, and stability which families need during difficult economic times.
1) Get enough sleep: a rested mind and body is critical to properly cope with stress and allows for more effective reasoning.
2) Minimize stress: eliminate what you can. Do your best and leave the rest.
3) Serve others: work together as a family and help those in need. This helps to minimize our own troubles, recognize our blessings, and develop healthy bonds with others.
4) Stay engaged: maintain routines of fun and be involved in your children's lives.
