4 Qualities Your Teen is Looking For in a Role Model
Written by Craig Rogers, Posted on , in Section Teens & Tweens
Most of us have heard the quote that “it takes a village to raise a child.” Teenagers can be among the most complicated challenges parents will face in their lives, but as it turns out those teens are looking for a positive role model. Marilyn Price-Mitchell, PhD and author from Roots of Action, tells what she found after interviewing several teens.
Passion and Inspiration
If a teenager sees someone who is passionate about something, they are likely to copy that persons behavior. One student spoke of his teacher saying “They’re so dedicated to teaching students and helping students and empowering students. That is such a meaningful gesture. They are always trying to give back to the next generation. That really inspires me.”
The Ability to Succeed
Teenagers admire those who show them that success is possible. In fact, research has shown that there is a correlation between positive role models and higher levels of engagement in the community from young people. As children and teens develop, role models can help them learn how to overcome challenges, set goals, and plan for the future. Success is much easier achieved when we have someone who has paved the path before us.
Values
Someone who stands by their values is a person of character. Children will reflect the actions of others, so the better actions they observe better are the chances of holding those same values. When a role model speaks out about the values they have, their peers will observe and follow course.
Selflessness
One of the best qualities of a positive role model is that they are focused on the needs of others. They will be involved in their community, show acceptance of others, and use their talents to benefits the needs of others.
Tucker Elliot, popular sports writer, tells of how his parents guided him to pick correct role models. “When I was a kid, my parents were very careful about who was “acceptable” as my heroes if you will, because they didn’t want me being influenced by athletes who lacked morals. Cal Ripken and Dale Murphy were at the top of my mom’s list of players she felt were good role models, so of course I was a diehard fan of both those guys.”
